Most evenings do not go wrong in one big way. They go wrong in five small ones that feel completely normal: the late coffee, the last scroll, the nightcap, the big dinner, the bedtime that moves around. None of them is a character flaw, and none needs a gadget to fix. This post is about the habits themselves and one simple correction for each, so you can change one thing tonight and see how the morning feels. It builds on the Maha monsoon habits we shared on 1 November, but goes further into what the evening itself is doing.

Habit 1. Coffee, tea or chocolate after mid-afternoon

Caffeine is easy to forget because it feels gone by evening. It is not. The US National Heart, Lung, and Blood Institute notes that the effects of caffeine can last up to 8 hours, so a late-afternoon cup can still be working at bedtime. In a home study at the Henry Ford Hospital sleep centre, a 400 mg dose of caffeine taken 6 hours before habitual bedtime still disturbed sleep compared with placebo, and the authors supported a minimum 6-hour caffeine gap before bed (Drake et al., 2013).

The fix: pick a caffeine cut-off time, roughly 8 hours before you want to be asleep if you are sensitive, and keep it. After that, move to something warm without caffeine. Plain warm water, a herbal infusion or a milk drink all do the job.

Habit 2. A bright screen until the lights go out

The NHLBI advice for the last hour of the day is plain: keep it quiet, and avoid bright artificial light from a TV or computer screen, because the light may signal the brain that it is time to be awake. A small laboratory crossover study from Brigham and Women's Hospital compared reading on a light-emitting e-reader with reading a printed book. The e-reader readers took longer to fall asleep, had suppressed evening melatonin, and were less alert the next morning (Chang et al., 2015).

The fix: set a screen-off point about an hour before bed, and charge the phone across the room. If you like to read, a printed book under a warm lamp is the easiest swap.

Habit 3. The nightcap that helps you drop off and costs you the second half

Alcohol feels like it helps. A review of the research in healthy volunteers found that at all doses alcohol shortens the time it takes to fall asleep, but it also increases sleep disruption in the second half of the night and delays the first period of REM sleep (Ebrahim et al., 2013). You fall asleep faster and wake up less rested.

The fix: keep alcohol for earlier in the evening, with food, and finish well before bed. Let the last drink of the day be a warm one with no alcohol in it.

Habit 4. A large dinner eaten close to bedtime

The NHLBI recommends avoiding heavy or large meals within a few hours of bedtime. Late nights, long commutes and rainy evenings push dinner later and later, and a full stomach is a poor companion for lying down.

The fix: make dinner the lighter meal and finish it earlier. If you are hungry later, keep it small and gentle, such as a warm drink, rather than a second dinner.

Habit 5. A bedtime that is different every night

The NHLBI guidance is simple: go to bed and wake up at the same time every day, and keep the same schedule on weeknights and weekends. A bedtime that slides by two hours across the week asks your body clock to restart on Monday.

The fix: choose the wake-up time first, because it is easier to hold, and work backwards. Move your bedtime by 15 minutes at a time rather than in one jump.

How to course-correct in a week

Do not fix all five at once. Change one habit a night and the whole list is done by the weekend.

• Day 1: set a caffeine cut-off and swap the late cup for a warm, caffeine-free drink.
• Day 2: put the phone on charge across the room an hour before bed.
• Day 3: finish alcohol earlier, or skip it for the night.
• Day 4: eat the lighter dinner earlier.
• Days 5 to 7: hold a fixed wake-up time and pull bedtime in by 15 minutes a night.

At the end of the week, notice how you feel getting out of bed rather than how quickly you fell asleep. If you want a longer wind-down to build on, the 90-second evening wind-down and the warm spiced oat milk recipe are good places to start.

The bottom line

The two habits with the strongest evidence behind them are the late caffeine and the bright screen, so start there. A warm drink with no caffeine gives the evening a clear ending and replaces the cup you are giving up. If sleep problems carry on for weeks, or you snore loudly or wake gasping, speak with a doctor.

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Sources and further reading

• Drake C, Roehrs T, Shambroom J, Roth T. Caffeine effects on sleep taken 0, 3, or 6 hours before going to bed. J Clin Sleep Med, 2013. PubMed.
• Chang AM, Aeschbach D, Duffy JF, Czeisler CA. Evening use of light-emitting eReaders negatively affects sleep, circadian timing, and next-morning alertness. PNAS, 2015. PubMed.
• Ebrahim IO, Shapiro CM, Williams AJ, Fenwick PB. Alcohol and sleep I: effects on normal sleep. Alcohol Clin Exp Res, 2013. PubMed.
• National Heart, Lung, and Blood Institute. Healthy sleep habits. NHLBI.

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